Yolanda

Accommodation

I wasn’t in a stable living situation so I wanted to come somewhere where I could be myself and get away from the dramas at home.

When I first arrived I was really nervous and cried. I wanted to go home. I’ve been here for about three weeks now, the girls are really lovely and the teachers are so nice. It’s a drama-free place and you can leave your stress behind.

In the short time I’ve been here I've learnt more about life, values, morals and decision-making.

I’m learning about being pregnant and what to expect being a mum, and about life because I haven't really done much before. I didn't finish school so I want to learn more, not just about pregnancy but about life in general.

I’m not sure about being excited about being a mum yet. I’ve had a really rough pregnancy. I’ve been hospitalised four times and have a lot of trouble with the dad, so I just hope I’m going to be a great mum. But it’s going to be hard.

One of the best things about being here at Bethany is learning about other people’s backgrounds and their experiences. They’re just so different from my own.
 
Already I feel much stronger since I’ve been here, mainly through the other girls’ support – they’re telling me not to fall back on my boyfriend and tell me not to text him.

To other people who are in the same situation I’d say Bethany is a great place. I’m glad I came here as everyone is so supportive emotionally. It’s just been great.